I lived through this. Intensity. I thought that was how relationships were suppose to be. Intense. The more passionate the better. The more suspenseful the better. No one I was with wanted or could give me a calm simple love.
I had a lot to learn. I kept choosing wrong partners. I didn’t know better. Then I realized that was far from what I wanted and needed. The older I got the more calm I wanted my partner to be. Never mistake intensity for love. Never ever. Some people may enjoy the drama. Not I.
I needed a solid foundation where two people can communicate and agree to disagree and be secure in ourselves as individuals that it didn’t get projected on to one another.
What’s your love life like?
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