Change It Up!

I normally put the kids to bed and log into work. I didn’t want to tonight. I was tired. Emotionally drained..a little. I put on a brainless movie. One I haven’t seen. So silly yet it was magical. Magical to have a normal night. Just on the couch solo resting. Sounds so silly yet so impactful. So needed. Why can’t we all just do these little things for ourselves. Where we take care of ourselves and rest and do something out of routine. 

Why can’t we change up things in our life to make ourselves happy and content? We really need to change things up more!

Sleep Well!

Maybe It’s Time

What’s Hardest To Say...

Are You Happy...That’s All That Matters

Break The Patterns

Break the patterns. Learn the lessons. Heal. Do not repeat past mistakes. You will repeat things until you heal from them. 

I didn’t want any relationship I once had. I didn’t want a stressful life. I didn’t want chaos. Just fun and peace and no drama. It’s a work in progress. I want something new and enjoyable. Not painful. 

Everything teaches you something. Those meant to be in your life with be in it. Those who are not will not and you have to be ok with it. 

Dating in 2019

Feel Good Song: I’ll Be There For You

Self Love

Local Oktoberfest Limited Menu Options

http://www.fairfieldlocal.com/food-drinks.php

Parenting Humor...Blame It On Dad

You Are In Control...Process Don’t React

We need to start living by this rule. Also know at any given moment you can change your life. 💗

Embrace A New Start

I just woke up in the middle of the night one day and said embrace a new start. Let go of the repeated cycles.  And so I did and I swear it changed me. Let it change you too! ❤️

Thursday Motivation...Choose Who You Allow In

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If You Love Something....

I may sound silly for saying this but this isn’t true. When you set something free you’re saying I am willing to risk not being with you. Everyone knows majority of the time you both move on with your life and find other people to fill what that person couldn’t. It’s a nice way of saying I don’t want to be with you. 

I know strange coming from a spiritual person like me. But I feel that relationships take effort and work and if one person won’t make that effort well let them go. 

We are responsible for the decisions we make in our life. It’s your life. No one else’s. So if you love someone don’t set them free. Make them a priority. Make them feel your love. If you set them free you don’t deserve to be with them. 

You Go Girl...Keep Healing and Growing

Rise Up

Powerful 💜

Be With Someone Who Adds To Your Happiness

Goodbye Retrograde...Well That Explains it

I would add made us hold on to false hope since April.... but really love when I see these things and it’s like “that explains it”. 

Let it go and never come back. 

Happy Thoughts...Happy Thoughts.

Be good to you!

What’s For Dinner? Pasta For A Cause

September is Childhood Cancer Awareness Month. I saw these at Stop and Shop and had to buy them. 

Everyone Serves A Purpose In Your Life

StressFactory Line Up

I love this place. I LOVE to laugh. Like I can fall in love with someone just for making me laugh. It’s true, it’s happened before. Haha. But really a great spot and close to home too. 

Life is too short to not smile and laugh and be happy. Add some comedy to your life.  

https://bridgeport.stressfactory.com/

Parenting Coupon Humor

*via Fake Adult Mom

Why not?! There’s always amazing deals out there. I have really mastered some great restaurant deals and savings. I love it especially since I love eating out. 

How’s Your Flow?

Choose new energy! Only allow true, good, intentions in. If someone isn’t willing to give you what you need then do not accept their energy. We are all here for one another. Not to hurt, confuse or manipulate anyone. We are here to love and teach and protect one another. Only good intentions and good energy applies. 

Is Choosing Them Meaning You Choose You?

It’s a weird process. I will not lie. Everyone thinks being single is always fun. It’s is fun but not always. It’s a process. A learning process. You learn a lot about yourself too. You learn what you want in life. What you will tolerate and what you won’t. You have to understand no one gets it unless they have been in your shoes. For any situation. Mine just so currently happens to be about dating. 

It’s a learning process. Every situation. I have no regrets because it all taught me something and I still have a ton to learn. I came across this and I love this guy. His feedback is spot on. So if you’re in a relationship with uncertainty or going through the process of dating then take the time to watch this. Honestly there’s so much to learn. Everyday we grow. Just love yourself and never settle 💗

Oktoberfest In The Park Stamford September 27th & 28th

Learn more here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/oktoberfest-in-the-park-presented-by-half-full-brewery-tickets-69916669641

Feel Good Song: Dreamgirl

Women are meant to be loved, valued, respected and appreciated. We aren’t hard to please. It’s actually very simple. Yet we are easily misunderstood and men don’t know how to give us something so simple.  

Makes you wonder...

September 18th Stop Focusing On The Past

Love Yourself Girl

Self love is self responsibility. Being responsible for your actions and thoughts. Love Yourself. Fill your life with people who love you and make you feel amazing. No self doubt. No broken hearts. No past emotional pain. All that is over. Be the new you. Happy and grateful. Loved and lovable. Shine bright girl. 

Wednesday Vibes Let The Universe Guide You

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In Order To Grow You Have To Let Go

You can’t hold on to this idea of how things should be. Enjoy how things are. Let go of everything else. 

Heart To Heart Conversations

Feel Good Song: Myself

Never Doubt Your Ability To Make A Difference

I had a meeting tonight. When I walked in the building someone greeted me. Wow I thought, they are using our suggestion. I enter the meeting and we gave updates. I brought back some positive feedback I have received from recent experiences people had. I was beaming. 

Another committee member turned to me and said wow you have such great positive feedback tonight. I replied thank you. I am so excited we are making a difference and changes are being implemented. By the way did you see the greeter. I almost wanted to take a picture with him. 

I can’t emphasize enough how you can make a difference. How you giving your feedback in a professional manner can create amazing results. I was glowing with excitement.  How amazing would this world be if we got together to make a positive change. To make everyone’s experience a little brighter and happier! I think it would be a beautiful thing. 

September 17th Trust In Yourself

History...It’s Repeating Itself

It’s been so weird. Things are happening like they did last September. It’s like I am replaying my life all over again. To the point that what I did this weekend was same as last year and where I am going this weekend is coincidentally same place as last year. Same people I met coming back. Same situations. The exact situations are re happening.  History was repeating itself. It freaked me out a little. I had to take a step back. Change my thoughts. Laugh a little about it because it was amusing but also think what lessons do I still need to learn?

We repeat things because we didn’t learn the first time. It’s an interesting journey for sure! Fun, exciting yet so bizarre. I have to focus on what I need to learn for things to change. 

You Have To Feel

Being numb is the worse thing you can do to yourself. I was for years and just went along with it. Went along with life. Then I stopped seeing someone recently and it was so refreshing to feel. To actually cry and be upset because it meant I was no longer numb. Those feelings have since passed but when I see things like this message it’s a reminder. 

A reminder to never be numb. To feel. Even if no one understands it or even if you’re over reacting. Feel. Cry. Be upset. It’s so much more beneficial to you and your soul than feeling nothing at all. Trust me. Feel the emotions. 

You got this!

Dating in Fall Humor

There’s so many fun things to do in Fall. The best is I used to think I can only do these Fall Fun activities with my kids but when I am not with my kids I always have a ton of girl friends who enjoy these type of fun too. Never feel you are alone. You’re never alone. 

Fall is perfect for Pumpkin Fun and Haunted Hayrides. Christmas is perfect for light shows and snow fun. Who says you can’t be a child at heart during these seasons. 

Do whatever makes your heart happy even if it meant being single during them or yet finding someone new who loves these little adventures not for them but for you to make you happy. 

Feel Good Song: Somebody To Love

Answers Are Within You...Stop Searching

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Keep Moving...

You can miss someone or how things were doesn’t mean it’s good for you or you want it back in your life. Everything is a lesson. Every good and bad teachers you a lot. Don’t look at the past. It’s gone. Nothing can go back. Everyday is a new beginning even if you do restart something with someone it has to be new. 

Never give someone an ego over yours. Never let someone control your emotions. Never give someone the power to have you feel self doubt. 

Drama free is the only goal in life. Anyone attached to it doesn’t belong in your life. 

I can walk away from a lot of situation saying I gave them my best and all I could. I will admit a lot of times I never got half of that back. It’s taught me what to tolerate in my life now. It taught me to stop settling. I am much better than that and deserve a ton better too and so do you. 

Time...People Make It

There’s always time. It’s making time for what you want to make time for that’s the difference. The more I asked of someone’s time the more I was denied it and the more upset I got until I finally stopped asking and devoted my time to other people. 

To Attract Better Be Better

Be Mindful Start Today

Feel Good Song: Fallin

Two Roads Octoberfest This Weekend

Learn more here: https://tworoadsbrewing.com/events/view/6769

Spiritual Growth...Break The Cycle

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Happy Taco Tuesday!

You are the Tequila 💚

Love Who You Were & Who You Are Now

Our past shaped us to be who we are today. Thank your past self. Your past experiences. Your past pain. All that helped created you. Who you are today. Love your process. 💜

It All Works Out

What Isn’t Love

Walk away from situations like these. Always! It’s not putting up with stuff. That’s wrong views to have. It’s being happy and good and grateful. Not fighting and being something you’re not to make someone else happy.